"God has left us abandoned in time. God and humanity are like two lovers who have missed their rendezvous. Each is there before the time, but each at a different place, and they wait and wait and wait. He stands motionless, nailed to the spot for the whole of time. She is distraught and impatient. But alas for her if she gets tired and goes away. The crucifixion of Christ is the image of the fixity of God. God is attention without distraction. One must imitate the patience and humility of God." (Simone Weil, "The Fathers Silence" in The Simone Weil Reader, edited by George A Panichas, David McKay Company, 1977, 424-25)

Course: Developing Your Own Spirituality, Unit IV

Idealizations & detachment, social presence & obedience

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Starts 10am Thu Sep 5
(Repeated 6pm Thu Nov 7)
In Unit IV – the final Unit in this Course – we will pay particular attention to four major issues in spirituality: Idealization – a psychological process whereby we pursue an image of the way things should be rather than a conversation with the way things are; detachment – a subtle but profound disposition that comes to us as a grace when we learn to receive it; social presence – all spirituality is essentially and irrevocably social, never merely private, always focusing our lives on building and maintaining living relationships, in other words, community tending; obedience – attentive listening, facing what must be faced, submitting to the truth of experience no matter what, is the stuff of any life of substance.

Participants will be given notes as an aid to an adult conversation. They will also be encouraged to do listening exercises to facilitate the integration of the material in the notes. 

Facilitators/Presenters: Michael Whelan SM PhD and Marie Biddle RSJ MA MTh
Where: Aquinas Academy, Level 5, 141 Harrington Street, The Rocks, Sydney
When: Four Thursday mornings, 10am - 12noon, September 5, 12, 19, 26, 2019
Repeated: Four Thursday evenings, 6pm - 18pm, November 7, 14, 21, 28, 2019
Cost: $150/person (including notes)

Nobody will be turned away simply because they cannot afford to pay. Offer a donation if you cannot pay the full registration fee.

Week One – the person as idealizing: the essential human journey is one of emergence and unfolding, an inside out process; the destructive process of living according to an idealized image – even a “religious” image – must be understood and countered.

Week Two – detachment: the human journey is a never-ending process of moving on and letting go; all the great religious traditions recognise the importance of embracing this inherent detachment pattern; detachment lies at the heart of the Christian vocation.

Week Three – social presence: there is no such thing as private spirituality though all spirituality will be deeply personal; all spirituality is essentially and irrevocably social; spirituality necessarily finds expression in an appropriate social presence, on the basis of social consciousness and social conscience.

Week Four – obedience: critical to the whole process of developing a well-grounded personal spirituality is the willingness to continual hear and heed what is happening; we are generally too quick to assume this or that about reality or simply impose our pre-definitions; a healthy life formation process is always a conversation.

For further information please telephone 02 9247 4651 or email This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

Please register before the course starts so that notes will be available.

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