"If I cannot listen to the subtle manifestation of rich reality in my environment, I will necessarily try to impose my wilful codes on others. If I am not open to reality and do not obey the voice of reality, a terrible distortion takes place. Sooner or later I will turn the whole relationship around: Instead of listening to reality in people and events, I become convinced that reality in people and events should listen to me."

[Adrian van Kaam, The Art of Existential Counseling, Dimension Books, 1966, 80.]

Ethicist sees 'Joy of Love' as call-out for family, justice

JJulie Rubio

There's a lot going on in "The Joy of Love" (Amoris Laetitia), the exhortation Pope Francis published last year after the two-part synod on the family, but, says theologian Julie Hanlon Rubio, the core of it is pretty simple.
An array of social forces make marriage and family life more difficult — poverty, incarceration, migration, violence, racism, individualism and many more.
"The pope says, if we care about marriage and family, we have to care about these issues as well." Read more ...